How To Have S’more Joy And A Not-So-Stressed-Out Holiday Season

Reducing Burnout Among Alabama’s Pastors And Church Workers
As we gear up for the holiday season, Alabama churches are ready to spread joy and celebrate the birth of Jesus. But here’s a reality check: last year, 41% of pastors seriously considered leaving full-time ministry. That’s right—while we’re busy planning festive events and gathering with loved ones, many of our dedicated church leaders are feeling the pressure. The holiday hustle can turn even the most spirited church staff into grumpy Grinches! This article will share some strategies to help prevent burnout and support our pastoral staff, ensuring they can enjoy the season as much as we do. So, let’s take a light-hearted look at the signs and causes of stress, and discover how we can all pitch in to keep our ministries thriving this Christmas!

Symptoms Of Burnout

Exhaustion: Constant fatigue that doesn’t improve with rest or insomnia. Pastors juggle sermon prep, counseling, and countless activities, leading to serious physical and emotional weariness.

Detachment: A sense of isolation and disconnection from their congregation. This can manifest as going through the motions without genuine engagement or enthusiasm—yikes!

Reduced Performance: Difficulty focusing and decreased productivity. The never-ending need to be spiritually and emotionally available can leave them feeling less effective.

Emotional Numbness: A growing sense of apathy where they might find it hard to care about their work or the people they serve.

Health Issues: Physical symptoms like headaches, digestive problems, and high blood pressure that come from chronic stress

Causes Of Burnout

Emotional Overload: Constant exposure to other people’s problems can weigh church staff down, especially during the holidays.

Too Many Hats: Pastors and staff often wear more hats than a fancy hat store, juggling sermon prep, counseling, event planning, and maybe even cleaning the church bathroom—multitasking at its finest!

The “Yes” Syndrome: They can’t resist saying “yes” to every request, from leading a new Bible study to organizing the annual bake sale. Suddenly, they’re busier than Santa’s elves in December!

Expectation Overload: Everyone expects them to be the spiritual superhero, available 24/7. Unfortunately, even Superman needs a coffee break now and then!

Lack of Boundaries: When your office is just down the hall from the sanctuary, it’s hard to draw the line between work and personal time. Those late-night emails? Not exactly a recipe for restful sleep!

The “Comparison Game”: Watching other churches thrive can lead to feelings of inadequacy. They might think, “If only I could make our potlucks as popular as theirs!” Spoiler alert: Everyone loves a good casserole, but it’s okay to take a break!

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Strategies For Prevention And Recovery

Self-Care: We hear this a lot, but let’s break it down: it means everyone needs regular rest, exercise, healthy foods and hobbies that provide a mental break from your ruminations—how about trying horseback riding, painting or steam punk sculpture? Prioritize some “me time,” even during the busiest seasons.

Set Boundaries: Learn to say “No, I don’t have the time to devote to that.” It’s crucial to protect your personal time and energy. Remember, if your plate is full, it’s okay to let someone else handle the potluck! Maybe set some hours you don’t speak about work to friends or family.

Seek Support: Don’t be a lone ranger! Reach out to fellow pastors, mentors, or mental health professionals. Sharing the burden can lighten your load and give you a fresh perspective—plus, venting to someone who gets it is always therapeutic.

Delegate Tasks: Empower church members to take on some responsibilities. After all, many hands make light work—so why not let someone else organize the next bake sale? That way, you can actually enjoy a slice of pie instead of just planning it!

Spiritual Practices: Engage in personal spiritual practices that nourish and sustain your faith—like prayer or reading scripture. Think of it as a spiritual spa day for your soul! Try a new way to worship like heading outside for a mini-retreat or drawing God’s word to fight spiritual dryness.

Now, these tips are all well and good, but how do you go from ideas to action? It can be a challenge! A great start is to keep these suggestions fresh in your mind by reviewing them daily. I’ve prepared a handy infographic for you to download. Set a reminder (wherever you save your tasks) to give it a glance every day at a specific time—because who doesn’t love a little structure to help keep burnout at bay? After a week or two re-assess where you are then create your own personalized version or a different one altogether with the help of any AI infographic maker.

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Support For Alabama Pastors

Communities in Alabama can support their pastors and church workers by recognizing the immense pressure they face and giving them a gentle nudge to prioritize their well-being—because let’s face it, even the most dedicated pastor deserves a break from the holiday hustle! Offering help with church activities, organizing support groups, and promoting open conversations about burnout can make a world of difference.

By taking proactive steps together, we can all thrive during this season filled with love, joy, peace, patience… and cookies, of course! After all, nothing says “I care” quite like a plate of freshly baked cookies (or two). So let’s rally together and make sure our church staff feel supported—because a well-rested pastor is way more fun at holiday potlucks!

Want me to come speak to your church staff about burnout?

Sarah Cherry

Hi! I’m Sarah Cherry, an Alabama Licensed Professional Counselor with over 18 years of experience working with the faith community. I’ve developed coping skills that blend biblical principles with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques—because who says faith and psychology can’t go hand in hand?

In my consultations with lay counselors and church staff, I offer insights on medications, psychiatric issues, medical concerns, substance abuse, ethics, referrals, and resources. For the amazing Lay Counselors at Liberty Church in Birmingham, I’ve taught classes covering everything from crises management to confidentiality. I even served as a subject matter expert for Liberty Church’s standard operating procedures for lay counselors.

I’m also proud to be a co-author of the Christian book Guided By Him to a Thinner Not-So-Stressed-Out You! alongside my mother, Julie Morris, RN, who has written 12 other faith-based books. I had the pleasure of editing those as well, helping them reach over 30,000 copies sold worldwide!

If you’d like to give your church staff a free 30-minute event packed with practical tips for a not-so-stressed-out Christmas, just fill out this form! We’ll arrange a time for me to share via Zoom—or even in person if you’re nearby. Let’s make this season merry and bright together!

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